Kelli Koins Releasing Controversial New Book “How to Be A Better Jump-Off” for Valentine’s Day

In the social media age, romantic relationships are at a higher risk of infidelity than ever before. It’s also easier to meet a secret lover – and opportunistic men, from rappers and athletes, all the way down to the average joe, are taking advantage of the chance to land a side-piece for some fun on the side.

Adding to the madness, side-chicks are attracting more of the spotlight. Take for example, Brittany Renner and Jordyn Woods. However, marketing pro and author Kelli Koins says many women don’t know how to play the game. In addition to falling in love and/or getting pregnant, more women are making themselves susceptible to serious consequences – such as being exposed and ridiculed publicly, or being drawn into potentially violent, life-threatening situations for themselves and the men they are involved with.

That is why she is coming to the rescue of all side-pieces with her highly anticipated new book,“How To Be A Better Jump-off,” a risqué and no-nonsense endeavor that will discuss real-life accounts, and reveal the unwritten rules and etiquette that women must adhere to if they elect to indulge in the risky lifestyle practice.

“There has always been an unspoken rule about these types of relationships,” Koins said. “Because of popular culture, social media and other things like that, the rules of engagement have gotten lost. Therefore, lives have been ruined, and people have gotten killed.”

Koins, a native of Flint, Michigan, learned early on in life about affairs, side-chicks and how the arrangements were supposed to work.  After all, she witnessed her father’s dealings with multiple women during his marriage to her mother. She gathered insight from him and other male relatives and friends regarding what men look for in women, what they desire in a side chick, and why married men cheat behind the backs of women they never intend to leave. Considering herself an expert of sorts on the topic, Koins has seen where the drama is likely to stem from. 

“I find that the situations where men lie, those are the situations that turn ugly,” she said.  “Clearly the wife or the girlfriend will lash out, but also even the jump-off. She feels like you lied and then she wants to retaliate. Let her decide if she wants to be in that relationship. Lay the rules down and if they are not, keep it moving. “

“How to Be A Better Jump-off” is likely to ruffle some feathers, particularly wholesome folks who are unequivocally committed to faithful, monogamous relationships. However, Koins makes it clear that she neither supports nor condemns the infidelity in relationships, but instead urges people to be accountable for their own decisions, and to recognize that there are consequences and karma. In the past, she too was involved in an affair that she later grew to regret for numerous reasons.

Still, for those who wish to proceed in secrecy, she has one major piece of advice.

“Keep your mouth shut,” she said. “The unwritten rules are the biggest part. Understand them and agree, or don’t get involved. It is a game and you have to know the rules. Don’t play the game if you don’t know the rules, or you don’t respect the rules.”

“How To Be A Jump-off” will be available just in time for Valentine’s Day on Amazon.com.