Queen Latifah Says Her BET Awards Speech Was Never Meant To Be A “Coming Out” Moment

Queen Latifah is finally opening up about the emotional 2021 BET Awards speech that many fans viewed as her public coming out moment.

During a recent conversation with radio personality Angie Martinez, the entertainment icon explained that the moment was never planned as some major announcement. Instead, she says it simply felt natural while accepting the BET Lifetime Achievement Award.

“Well, it was Pride Day and st. I can’t do just regular st,” Latifah joked while reflecting on the speech that instantly went viral online.

The Grammy-winning rapper and actress explained that she wanted to acknowledge the people who had been part of her journey, including longtime partner Eboni Nichols and their son Rebel.

“I was getting a Lifetime Achievement Award, and I didn’t want to leave out the people who were part of the lifetime,” she said. “That’s it. It was so not more complicated than that.”

At the 2021 BET Awards, Latifah ended her speech by thanking Nichols and Rebel before saying “Happy Pride!” — a moment that immediately sparked headlines and emotional reactions from fans who had followed her decades-long career.

For years, Queen Latifah intentionally kept her personal life private despite constant speculation surrounding her sexuality. During her conversation with Martinez, she explained that growing up in the entertainment industry showed her how invasive fame could become.

“I mind my business,” she said while discussing public fascination with celebrities’ personal lives.

Latifah also made it clear that she never wanted conversations about her sexuality to overshadow her accomplishments as an artist, actress and entrepreneur.

Reports have linked Latifah and Nichols together publicly since around 2013, though the couple has largely kept their relationship away from the spotlight. The pair welcomed their son Rebel in 2019 and have occasionally appeared together at major public events, including the 2024 Met Gala.

Even now, Latifah says she values privacy and autonomy over turning her personal life into a public spectacle. For her, the BET Awards speech wasn’t about making headlines — it was about showing love to the people closest to her during one of the biggest moments of her career.